How does one succeed in life?

If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.

The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.

Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).

How do you fight the push and pull (manipulation) tactic if you want to win him?

The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.

However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:

Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.

Why do I sweat (mostly on face) when I eat usually spicy food?

Losing 20kg is a goal.

Do not set goals—set systems.

Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.

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How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?

Living to your full potential is a goal.

Saving $10,000 is a goal.

Why in my 60s do I have a strong desire to suck cock and swallow?

What I need from you?

Ask yourself:

Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.

Why do I get bored with porn so quickly? I can watch maybe half a video (5 mins max) and then get bored and do something else. I don't watch porn often, just a teenager. 17.

Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.

Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.

Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.

What is the sluttiest thing your wife has ever done?

First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.

PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.

That's it for today.

One day, I happened to walk past where my crush was with friends. Then all of a sudden they start laughing, and someone maybe him, goes "freaking (my name) with her freaking hair!" Can anyone offer insights into this? We're in middle school.

Procrastinates a lot.

Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.

How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?

What was your biggest culture shock going to Europe?

Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.

Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.

Hangs out with loser friends.

Im happy but there is a heavy feeling of sadness in my heart that I just can't remove. Why am I like this?

Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.

Making more friends is a goal.

Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.

Why do untreated borderlines always blame their partners when they actually think they are normal?

Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.

Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.

Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.

What do you say after "Hi" when chatting?

Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.

“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.

Opens a business and makes WiFi money.

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Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.

Avoids sugar and is very fit.

An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):

Is there an MBTI personality that is more or less likely to handle stress?

Does not procrastinate.

Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.

Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.

What is Quora? Are there any tips?

Big dreamer but only in his mind.

Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).

Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.

Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.

In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.

I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?